Tasha Joseph – Leading Love and Infidelity Expert

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Is your guy engaged in e-sex with another woman in cyberspace? Here are 5 ways to find out!

1.  He lives in an alternate reality. If your guy plays Sims, Second Life or any of the other life-simulating video games now available and lives a completely different life online than he does in real life, he may be e-sexing an avatar without you ever knowing it.

2.  He’s secretive about his hardware. If your guy hides his computer, encrypts it with three layers of password-protection, the code to which you don’t have, he could be having e-sex with a cyber-hottie behind your back.

3.  He burns the midnight oil online. If you guy spends hours on end on his computer, that’s not normal. He may be living out his alternate reality online with a woman who he’s having e-sex with.

4.  He doesn’t have a “real” life. If you guy’s world revolves around his computer and he’s stopped doing things with you, having sex with you or even talking to you on the phone, something is wrong. Your guy may be getting his needs met in elsewhere, including cyberspace.

5.  He can’t stop talking about his online world. If your guy has crafted an alternate universe for himself online and can’t stop talking to you about it, there’s something amiss. He’s too wrapped up in his online life and as such, may be wrapped up in the arms of a cyber-woman having e-sex! — Tasha Cunningham

Are you stuck in a relationship rut? Can’t seem to find a good guy? Looking to find a meaningful relationship with someone you can trust? Here are five fabulous ways to change your love life for good and make it happen!

1. Look in the mirror. Really take a good, long look at yourself and decide what you want. What are your goals? What are you trying to achieve in the short-term and in the future? What are the things that went wrong in your last relationship? You can’t make a permanent change in your love life if you’re not even sure what your trying to change.

2. Don’t repeat the same, old habits. Habits are never easy to break, but you can do it. If you’ve got a pattern of dating guys with issues, the next time you run into a hottie without a job, his own home or life goals, run! If you’re always dating guys that you have to “fix”, stop that behavior in it’s tracks. If you meet a guy and his list of problems is longer than yours, head for the hills and stay away from that guy!

3. Get a new attitude. Women have a tendency to get down on themselves for not being perfect. Guess what? No one’s perfect! And although we know that, it’s often hard to ease the pressure we put on ourselves to be thin, to have money, to be married to the perfect guy or whatever it is that’s driving you. Realize that you’re going to make mistakes and you can’t beat yourself up for it. It’s going to take time for you to change your thinking, but don’t waste too much time because you only get one life and YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY.

4. Make a clean break from your exes. Many women remain friends with an ex immediately following a break up. Don’t do it. This only leads to trouble. You could get into a friends- with-benefits situation and get your feelings hurt or you may end up falling for your ex again. Either way, dealing with things like that takes away from time you could be spending on yourself, planning your fabulous future!

5. Hit the gym. You’ll transform your body and your mind. It’s healthy for you and you may just meet the man of your dreams while you’re sweating it out in the name of beauty!

Check out this great article Leah Shafer did on quickdfw.com!

http://www.quickdfw.com/sharedcontent/dws/quick/columnists/lshafer/stories/DN-pop–girltalk_10ick.ART.State.Edition1.26e75f8.html

Leah, you’re the best!!!

Hi ladies! Why do women often sabotage their relationships with men without even giving it a chance?

Do you sabotage your relationships with guys?

Find out!

We’ve all done it. We’re dating a guy we think might be worth our time, when out of nowhere we start a destructive pattern of sabotage and in a short time, the relationship goes belly up. Why do we do this, ladies?! Here are 3 ways to stop the sabotage!

1. Don’t be the one who calls all the time. One of the biggest mistakes women make in relationships is taking the lead too soon by calling, texting and e-mailing their guy all the time. Don’t do it. Make him call, text and e-mail you by showing him that you’ve got a life. You’re busy and you don’t have time to sit around sending him a hundred texts a day. Take it easy and make him come to you.

2. Don’t cater to his every need. Sure, in a relationship, women want to take care of their men by doing things to make their lives easier. While you might think this is a good idea, don’t do it. Being too compliant, changing your schedule around for him and waiting on him hand and foot will surely lead to the demise of your relationship. A man wants a girlfriend or wife, not a maid. It’s important to show a guy how independent you are and that your world does not center around him.

3. Don’t be naive. You’re not 18 anymore, so don’t act like it. Don’t believe everything a guy tells you and then govern your actions according to what he says. No way! Make sure he’s telling the truth and if he’s not, kick him to the curb.

Hey ladies! How many times have you dated a guy and got that feeling deep in the pit of your stomach that something just wasn’t right. Like many women do, you ignored the signs and kept dating him, only to discover that everything you thought about the guy was dead-on. So, how can we women stop ignoring our intuition? That’s why Mother Nature gave it to us! Here are 3 ways to listen to your gut every time!

1.  Don’t fight the feeling. When feel that gnawing in the pit of your stomach telling you that something’s not right, immediate stop and acknowledge. Recognize that you don’t feel right about this guy and make a mental note of it.

2.  Stop seeing a guy you don’t necessarily feel good about. If you’re not totally into a guy, don’t date him. It’s just going to be a waste of his time and yours. You’re never going to find the perfect guy, but you may just find one that’s right for you if you listen to your gut.

3.  Practice trusting that gut feeling. Trusting your gut takes practice. We as women are so used to ignoring it until it’s too late, that we’ve got to practice, practice, practice and soon you’ll get the hang of it.

Hey ladies! How many times have you dated a guy and got that feeling deep in the pit of your stomach that something just wasn’t right. Like many women do, you ignored the signs and kept dating him, only to discover that everything you thought about the guy was dead-on. So, how can we women stop ignoring our intuition? That’s why Mother Nature gave it to us! Here are 3 ways to listen to your gut every time!

1. Don’t fight the feeling. When feel that gnawing in the pit of your stomach telling you that something’s not right, immediate stop and acknowledge. Recognize that you don’t feel right about this guy and make a mental note of it.

2. Stop seeing a guy you don’t necessarily feel good about. If you’re not totally into a guy, don’t date him. It’s just going to be a waste of his time and yours. You’re never going to find the perfect guy, but you may just find one that’s right for you if you listen to your gut.

3. Practice trusting that gut feeling. Trusting your gut takes practice. We as women are so used to ignoring it until it’s too late, that we’ve got to practice, practice, practice and soon you’ll get the hang of it.