Tasha Joseph – Leading Love and Infidelity Expert

1. The corner office – your guy may not be working late, but he may be sneaking off to his paramour’s office down the hall for a quickie during the day. Pop by for a visit to his office unannounced if you’re suspicious.

2. The gym – sure, he goes there to work out, but what else happens during your guy’s sweat sessions? Put on some work out gear and head out with him the next time he goes to find out.

3. The bank – this comes directly from a DDHG reader who warns that some men will often use the bank as a place to troll for women while waiting in line or hitting on the women who work there. Either way, it’s not cool so the next time he says he’s going to the bank, tag along and see what happens.

How do you know your date is worth your time? You never really know, but here are 5 things that will give you a big hint!

1. He doesn’t hog the conversation – if you’re on a date with a guy who spends every minute rattling on his life and his exes without you getting a word in, this may be a sign that he’s narcissistic and selfish. A guy who listens and is interested in you and your life is the kind of guy you need.

2. He’s got chivalry on the brain – if he pulls out chairs and opens doors for you, he may be a keeper. Who says chivalry is dead?

3. He doesn’t use his cellphone during the date – this means one of two things – either he’s devoting his date time to you and doesn’t want distractions, or he’s got his phone on silent so the other women he’s dating don’t call while he’s with you. Hopefully, it’s the former.

4. He comes baring gifts – a guy who shows up on a date armed with flowers and candy is caring, considerate and obviously wants to impress you.

5. He’s on time – a guy being on time for a date is a sign that he’s taking his time with you seriously and wants to make a good impression

Should you date a guy you meet online at an adult sex site? The answer is a big fat NO. Here’ s why!

Many girls sign up on adult sexually oriented dating wrongly thinking there might be good guys on those sites. All guys are interested in sex, they reason, so there must be some good guys on there who are just being honest about how much they like sex. WRONG!

While all guys might be interested in sex, good guys do not sign up on those sites. Good guys do not think it is the place to find good girls, either. Guys know what is expected of them. They know that the girl they really want to marry will not tolerate those sites, so they do not sign up on them, plain and simple.

Guys who use those sites and really expect to meet girls are only looking for casual sex and one night stands. They are usually honest about that in their profiles, so believe what you read. Do not think you can find a good guy on those sites and change him. Save yourself a lot of pain and heartache by staying away from those sites.

Even if you think you might like a casual relationship yourself, the men on those sites are more than likely liars, cheaters, substance abusers, married or all of the above! Chances are very high that no relationship started on a sex site will end well. Why risk heartache and heartbreak by taking that chance? Guard your heart. Stay off adult sex dating sites – Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor

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Be a Smart Girl: Use Twitter to Tweet Your Way To Success by Kerry Gray – http://dontdatehimgirl.com/article_view/empower/be-a-smart-girl-using-twitter-to-tweet-your-way-to-success-440.html

Five Ways to Find Love in 2009 by Tasha Cunningham – http://dontdatehimgirl.com/article_view/empower/5-ways-to-find-love-in-2009-435.html

10 Guys You Should Never Date…EVER! by Tasha Cunningham- http://dontdatehimgirl.com/article_view/empower/10-guys-you-never-dateever-425.html

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Is your guy engaged in e-sex with another woman in cyberspace? Here are 5 ways to find out!

1.  He lives in an alternate reality. If your guy plays Sims, Second Life or any of the other life-simulating video games now available and lives a completely different life online than he does in real life, he may be e-sexing an avatar without you ever knowing it.

2.  He’s secretive about his hardware. If your guy hides his computer, encrypts it with three layers of password-protection, the code to which you don’t have, he could be having e-sex with a cyber-hottie behind your back.

3.  He burns the midnight oil online. If you guy spends hours on end on his computer, that’s not normal. He may be living out his alternate reality online with a woman who he’s having e-sex with.

4.  He doesn’t have a “real” life. If you guy’s world revolves around his computer and he’s stopped doing things with you, having sex with you or even talking to you on the phone, something is wrong. Your guy may be getting his needs met in elsewhere, including cyberspace.

5.  He can’t stop talking about his online world. If your guy has crafted an alternate universe for himself online and can’t stop talking to you about it, there’s something amiss. He’s too wrapped up in his online life and as such, may be wrapped up in the arms of a cyber-woman having e-sex! — Tasha Cunningham

Hey ladies! How many times have you dated a guy and got that feeling deep in the pit of your stomach that something just wasn’t right. Like many women do, you ignored the signs and kept dating him, only to discover that everything you thought about the guy was dead-on. So, how can we women stop ignoring our intuition? That’s why Mother Nature gave it to us! Here are 3 ways to listen to your gut every time!

1.  Don’t fight the feeling. When feel that gnawing in the pit of your stomach telling you that something’s not right, immediate stop and acknowledge. Recognize that you don’t feel right about this guy and make a mental note of it.

2.  Stop seeing a guy you don’t necessarily feel good about. If you’re not totally into a guy, don’t date him. It’s just going to be a waste of his time and yours. You’re never going to find the perfect guy, but you may just find one that’s right for you if you listen to your gut.

3.  Practice trusting that gut feeling. Trusting your gut takes practice. We as women are so used to ignoring it until it’s too late, that we’ve got to practice, practice, practice and soon you’ll get the hang of it.