Tasha Joseph – Leading Love and Infidelity Expert

Hey ladies! Do you have plans to marry your boyfriend one day? How do you know he’s the one? Here are 7 signs the guy you’re dating now won’t be the one you marry!

1. HE’S HAPPY WITH THE STATUS QUO. The guy you’re dating now might seem perfect, but if he isn’t trying to improve his life in some way and is just happy with the status quo, then why would you marry him? You’re a cool chick who wants to achieve great things, no a girl with your head stuck in the sand in a relationship that’s going nowhere.
2. HE’S ALLERGIC TO THE LONG-TERM. If you’ve been dating your guy for over six months you may think that seems like a long time in the dating game. But in reality it’s nowhere near what would be considered “long-term”. If the guy you’re dating whose last relationship lasted less than a year, he’s probably not going to be into committing to a romantic relationship in the long-term.
3. HE DOESN’T UNDERSTAND THE DEFINITION OF COMMITMENT. If you’re going to marry a guy, you both should be on the same page as to what commitment means to you. The definition varies widely depending on the couple. So make sure you’re not thinking that commitment means he’s never going to go to a strip clubs, while he’s thinking commitment means not getting a lap dance.
4. HIS GOALS DON’T LINE UP WITH YOURS. If you’re going to be part of a committed couple, you’re probably planning to stay together for the long haul. You probably have shared goals and ideas about where you want the relationship that you’re building to go. That’s what happens when your guy is looking at taking a walk down the aisle with you by his side. If you and your current guy can’t see eye to eye on what your lives will be like in the future, then he’s probably not the one you’re going to marry.
5. HE ISN’T REALLY MARRIAGE MATERIAL AND YOU KNOW IT. Sure your guy may be hot, but alone does not qualify him to be your husband. Spend a minute and think about 5 reasons you shouldn’t marry the guy you’re dating now. Then spend another 5 minutes thinking about the reasons you should hurl yourself toward wedded bliss with him. If your list of reasons to marry him isn’t as long as your list of reasons you shouldn’t do the deed, then you probably know deep down in your heart that although he may be a fine-looking male specimen, he’s not really marriage material.
6. HE DOESN’T TREAT YOUR PRIORITIES WITH RESPECT. Are there things you want to do that your guy puts down all the time? That’s a key sign that you won’t be promising to have and to hold with your guy anytime soon. Your wants and needs are just as important as his. What you want to do with your life is just as important as he wants to do. A guy who is wedding worthy will know that he needs to treat your priorities with respect.
7. HE’S TOO CLOSE TO HIS MOTHER. Ladies, you may be thinking that your guy is way too close to his mother. If his mom still thinks he’s six and treats him like it, it’s probably best if you don’t commit yourself til death do you part to him. You need a guy who is close with his family, but not to the point where his parents butt into his personal life and cause conflict in your relationship.