Tasha Joseph – Leading Love and Infidelity Expert

1. The corner office – your guy may not be working late, but he may be sneaking off to his paramour’s office down the hall for a quickie during the day. Pop by for a visit to his office unannounced if you’re suspicious.

2. The gym – sure, he goes there to work out, but what else happens during your guy’s sweat sessions? Put on some work out gear and head out with him the next time he goes to find out.

3. The bank – this comes directly from a DDHG reader who warns that some men will often use the bank as a place to troll for women while waiting in line or hitting on the women who work there. Either way, it’s not cool so the next time he says he’s going to the bank, tag along and see what happens.

How do you know your date is worth your time? You never really know, but here are 5 things that will give you a big hint!

1. He doesn’t hog the conversation – if you’re on a date with a guy who spends every minute rattling on his life and his exes without you getting a word in, this may be a sign that he’s narcissistic and selfish. A guy who listens and is interested in you and your life is the kind of guy you need.

2. He’s got chivalry on the brain – if he pulls out chairs and opens doors for you, he may be a keeper. Who says chivalry is dead?

3. He doesn’t use his cellphone during the date – this means one of two things – either he’s devoting his date time to you and doesn’t want distractions, or he’s got his phone on silent so the other women he’s dating don’t call while he’s with you. Hopefully, it’s the former.

4. He comes baring gifts – a guy who shows up on a date armed with flowers and candy is caring, considerate and obviously wants to impress you.

5. He’s on time – a guy being on time for a date is a sign that he’s taking his time with you seriously and wants to make a good impression

Should you date a guy you meet online at an adult sex site? The answer is a big fat NO. Here’ s why!

Many girls sign up on adult sexually oriented dating wrongly thinking there might be good guys on those sites. All guys are interested in sex, they reason, so there must be some good guys on there who are just being honest about how much they like sex. WRONG!

While all guys might be interested in sex, good guys do not sign up on those sites. Good guys do not think it is the place to find good girls, either. Guys know what is expected of them. They know that the girl they really want to marry will not tolerate those sites, so they do not sign up on them, plain and simple.

Guys who use those sites and really expect to meet girls are only looking for casual sex and one night stands. They are usually honest about that in their profiles, so believe what you read. Do not think you can find a good guy on those sites and change him. Save yourself a lot of pain and heartache by staying away from those sites.

Even if you think you might like a casual relationship yourself, the men on those sites are more than likely liars, cheaters, substance abusers, married or all of the above! Chances are very high that no relationship started on a sex site will end well. Why risk heartache and heartbreak by taking that chance? Guard your heart. Stay off adult sex dating sites – Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor

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Five Ways to Find Love in 2009 by Tasha Cunningham – http://dontdatehimgirl.com/article_view/empower/5-ways-to-find-love-in-2009-435.html

10 Guys You Should Never Date…EVER! by Tasha Cunningham- http://dontdatehimgirl.com/article_view/empower/10-guys-you-never-dateever-425.html