Tasha Joseph – Leading Love and Infidelity Expert

Are you stuck in a relationship rut? Can’t seem to find a good guy? Looking to find a meaningful relationship with someone you can trust? Here are five fabulous ways to change your love life for good and make it happen!

1. Look in the mirror. Really take a good, long look at yourself and decide what you want. What are your goals? What are you trying to achieve in the short-term and in the future? What are the things that went wrong in your last relationship? You can’t make a permanent change in your love life if you’re not even sure what your trying to change.

2. Don’t repeat the same, old habits. Habits are never easy to break, but you can do it. If you’ve got a pattern of dating guys with issues, the next time you run into a hottie without a job, his own home or life goals, run! If you’re always dating guys that you have to “fix”, stop that behavior in it’s tracks. If you meet a guy and his list of problems is longer than yours, head for the hills and stay away from that guy!

3. Get a new attitude. Women have a tendency to get down on themselves for not being perfect. Guess what? No one’s perfect! And although we know that, it’s often hard to ease the pressure we put on ourselves to be thin, to have money, to be married to the perfect guy or whatever it is that’s driving you. Realize that you’re going to make mistakes and you can’t beat yourself up for it. It’s going to take time for you to change your thinking, but don’t waste too much time because you only get one life and YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY.

4. Make a clean break from your exes. Many women remain friends with an ex immediately following a break up. Don’t do it. This only leads to trouble. You could get into a friends- with-benefits situation and get your feelings hurt or you may end up falling for your ex again. Either way, dealing with things like that takes away from time you could be spending on yourself, planning your fabulous future!

5. Hit the gym. You’ll transform your body and your mind. It’s healthy for you and you may just meet the man of your dreams while you’re sweating it out in the name of beauty!

Going green in every aspect of our lives is important. The future of our planet depends on us and how we take care of it. You can recycle and use less water, but can you green up your love life? Most certainly! Here’s how:

1. Plan the perfect green date! Skip the pricey restaurant for dinner and surprise him with an environmentally-friendly picnic under the stars at a park or even in your own backyard. Use reusable plates and utensils instead of disposable ones!

2. Organic can be orgasmic! Hit the local farmer’s market and prepare an entirely organic meal for your hottie. Organic foods are grown without toxic pesticides and fertilizers, making them good for you, and great for the planet, too!

3. Give green gifts! The holiday season may be behind us, but there are many occasions throughout the year to give green gifts to your loved ones! The Robomow Lawn Mower ($1,400) is environmentally-friendly and cool. The Gidget Gadget case provides eco-storage for your man’s iPod ($28). It’s fabulous!