Tasha Joseph – Leading Love and Infidelity Expert

Hi ladies! Why do women often sabotage their relationships with men without even giving it a chance?

Do you sabotage your relationships with guys?

Find out!

We’ve all done it. We’re dating a guy we think might be worth our time, when out of nowhere we start a destructive pattern of sabotage and in a short time, the relationship goes belly up. Why do we do this, ladies?! Here are 3 ways to stop the sabotage!

1. Don’t be the one who calls all the time. One of the biggest mistakes women make in relationships is taking the lead too soon by calling, texting and e-mailing their guy all the time. Don’t do it. Make him call, text and e-mail you by showing him that you’ve got a life. You’re busy and you don’t have time to sit around sending him a hundred texts a day. Take it easy and make him come to you.

2. Don’t cater to his every need. Sure, in a relationship, women want to take care of their men by doing things to make their lives easier. While you might think this is a good idea, don’t do it. Being too compliant, changing your schedule around for him and waiting on him hand and foot will surely lead to the demise of your relationship. A man wants a girlfriend or wife, not a maid. It’s important to show a guy how independent you are and that your world does not center around him.

3. Don’t be naive. You’re not 18 anymore, so don’t act like it. Don’t believe everything a guy tells you and then govern your actions according to what he says. No way! Make sure he’s telling the truth and if he’s not, kick him to the curb.

Hey ladies! How many times have you dated a guy and got that feeling deep in the pit of your stomach that something just wasn’t right. Like many women do, you ignored the signs and kept dating him, only to discover that everything you thought about the guy was dead-on. So, how can we women stop ignoring our intuition? That’s why Mother Nature gave it to us! Here are 3 ways to listen to your gut every time!

1.  Don’t fight the feeling. When feel that gnawing in the pit of your stomach telling you that something’s not right, immediate stop and acknowledge. Recognize that you don’t feel right about this guy and make a mental note of it.

2.  Stop seeing a guy you don’t necessarily feel good about. If you’re not totally into a guy, don’t date him. It’s just going to be a waste of his time and yours. You’re never going to find the perfect guy, but you may just find one that’s right for you if you listen to your gut.

3.  Practice trusting that gut feeling. Trusting your gut takes practice. We as women are so used to ignoring it until it’s too late, that we’ve got to practice, practice, practice and soon you’ll get the hang of it.